Who am I?
I’m a single mum by choice, currently living in Ibiza, carving a path that doesn’t fit the traditional mould—and showing other single women that they can do the same. With a foot in both worlds, I bridge the gap between corporate and creative, strategy and intuition, practical action and deeper transformation. Solospheres is the result of my own journey—one that blends bold decision-making with alignment, freedom, and a refusal to wait for life to happen.
My Why
So many people were curious about my journey—how I made my choices, what led me here, and what it really looks like to carve an unconventional path as a single woman. It made me realize just how underserved and ignored this space is, not just in the wellness industry, but in society as a whole. Too often, single women are met with silence, stigma, or outdated narratives, absorbing shame and self-blame instead of celebrating their life and feeling empowered.
But I also know firsthand what it takes to break free from those patterns. I beat my hyper-vigilance. I’m no longer tightly wound like a coil, stuck in survival mode. I learned to trust myself, to shift from constant overdrive into a life of ease, alignment, and self-celebration. Now, I want to help other women do the same—because it’s time for single women to take up space, own their stories, and rise—together.
My Story
For years, I did everything right.
I studied Politics, Philosophy, and Economics at the University of Oxford (New College), built a career in financial services sales, client relationship management, and business development in the City of London, and checked all the boxes—buying property, traveling to over 70 countries, and chasing success.
But beneath it all, I was miserable, exhausted, and increasingly lonely.
I spent years as a professional patient, battling long-term chronic conditions, advocating for myself but feeling like I was getting nowhere. I was constantly chasing, doing, achieving—never just being. My boundaries were weak, my people-pleasing tendencies ran deep, and I felt more and more isolated as friends settled down and moved out of London.
At work, I was moving sideways rather than forward—new titles, new packages, but largely the same role. And the truth was, it had never really fulfilled me. Dating felt like an endless loop of disappointment. No matter how much I tweaked my life around the edges, nothing really changed.
So, I bulldozed everything.
I changed my career, moved countries, and began my journey to becoming a single mother by choice. It was not easy. My fertility journey tested me in every way possible. But in that process, I rebuilt myself from the inside out.
I moved to Ibiza and started doing the deep, uncomfortable work of regulating my nervous system, trusting my body and intuition, and breaking free from old conditioning.
I found my tribe.
I found my authentic self.
I learned to sit with discomfort, to grieve the life I thought I’d have, and to build something even greater.
The work isn’t done—it never is. Healing comes in layers. But I am no longer waiting. I am living a full life. There is more of the good and more of the bad and that’s as it should happen.
Now, I help other single women navigate their own turning points—whether it’s career shifts, financial independence, fertility decisions, or simply stepping into the life they were meant to lead.
Your life isn’t on hold. It’s waiting for you to take the lead.
